Last night Brent had a meeting in our home with a couple from church. Their older children quickly paired up with our kids to play. But their little one-year-old toddler needed a little more supervision, so he and I got to hang out together for awhile. He wanted in on the meeting and was becoming a bit of a distraction, so I decided to take him outside for a walk. And that’s when the flashback moment hit me. There I was, hand in hand with a little toddler, walking on the sidewalk, and enjoying the summer breeze. As we started down the street, my memory immediately went back 10 years when I was doing this exact same thing. It was such a vivid memory of where our lives were a decade ago. I got a little teary from the nostalgia of it all. Ten years ago, we had just moved from Texas to Minnesota for Brent’s new job. (At that point, we still thought he was going to be a church choir director for the rest of his life. Ha!) That summer, we lived in a little one-bedroom apartment, just Brent, me, and our little one-year-old Emma. We moved with only one car, so there were many days when Emma and I were home without access to a car. That meant we took walks, a lot of walks! We walked to the playground. We walked to the the laundry room. We walked to the garbage dumpster. We walked around the parking lot. We walked around the block. I realize it was an inconvenience to be without a car, but I really did enjoy all of those walks with Emma toddling beside me, just a I enjoyed my walk with my little friend yesterday. Those slow-down moments are precious. And my flashback reminds how much they stick with us through the years.
It’s amazing the think about all that has happened in our lives since that summer a decade ago. There have been a lot of changes: different houses, different cars, more children, and a different job in a different state. I’m thankful to be married to a man that sees all of these changes as part of the adventure of following the Lord’s leading in our lives. And I must admit that I’m excited to see what the Lord has in store for us and our children over the next ten years. Hopefully, we’ll some more slow-down moments along the way.